Now That School Has Started: How Students Can Set Themselves Up for Success
The first few weeks of college are a big adjustment—for both students and parents. Your student is figuring out new routines, professors, and expectations, and you’re learning how to support them from a distance. The good news? While there’s not a lot you can do for them now that they’re on campus, you can remind them that you believe in them, that you know they’re capable, and that you’re proud of the effort they’re putting in. Sometimes, the best gift a parent can give is quiet confidence in their student’s ability to handle challenges.
If your student is wondering what habits will make the biggest difference, here are a few simple strategies that can help them feel less stressed, stay on top of their work, and build confidence in the classroom:
Attend class—even when you don’t feel like it. Many professors give participation or attendance points, and showing up consistently is half the battle.
Visit professors during office hours. This is one of the easiest ways to build connections, ask questions, and show that you care about doing well. Professors love it when students take initiative.
Turn in assignments—even if they’re not perfect. Some points are always better than zero points. Progress counts more than perfection in college.
Use a calendar. Download class schedules and assignment due dates into Google Calendar (or any planner system that works). This makes deadlines less overwhelming.
Treat school like a 9–5 job. Go to the library, student union, or a quiet spot between classes and knock out assignments during the day. This frees up evenings for fun, social time, or rest.
Don’t forget to have fun. College is as much about personal growth and experiences as academics. Finding balance is key.
As a parent, the best role you can play is cheerleader. Trust that your student is learning how to manage their time and responsibilities—even if it’s a little messy at first. A few encouraging texts or phone calls reminding them that you see how hard they’re working can go a long way. College is a big leap, but with steady effort and support, your student will find their stride.
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